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flamerose
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Ralph*Mouth
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Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 2:12 pm Post subject: |
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| If I get my Wife back to engaging with me, this is a good idea. We have led a stale stagnant lifestyle for too long. Refrsehing adventures sounds healthy. I am up for it, but she is not. Not at this time. |
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flamerose
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Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 11:04 pm Post subject: |
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Ralph,
I know you want your wife to be over this already but reality is you took 3 years (away from your marriage) to have the affair. You need to give your wife 3 years to recover. I know this sounds unrealistic to you but to her it isn't... BUT, you can get yourself into counseling and find out why you had the affair if you don't already know. Do not push your wife. Just be there for her. I'm sure the dating process will happen again... |
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