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Binto_2
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 Posted: Sat Jun 21, 2008 10:06 am Post subject: my girl friend: |
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My cousin Arnold just shared his thoughts from me,i got excited to have your review:
My girlfriend is not a virgin and I am! We have been dating for a year now and it hurts when I think about her past! I want to forget it but it some how keeps on coming to my memories,i want to ask will this effect our marraige life or not.
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safehaven
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Hi Binto, Welcome to Safe Haven,
Can I ask what country you are from?? I ask that, because here in the US, it is actually rare for people to be virgins before marriage.
Is this possibly an arranged marriage type of scenario??
If so, I can fully understand your feelings. I know in certain countries such as Pakistan and India, it is cultural for people to save their virginity for marriage.
Unfortunately, also, we live in a changed world, where sex is glorified by Hollywood, the media, tv, magazines, ect... the message sent is that it is ok to have sex early. It is sad. Especially for our younger generations.
So, it is not uncommon nowadays for people to engage in sexual activity before marriage.
If it is bothering you too much, I would have to highly suggest some counseling for you and your future wife. That might help a great deal.
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chelsea
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Hmmmm. Everyone has a past. It is up to him to decide if he can live with this without resorting to punishing her for it for the rest of her life.
WHY does HE need to forgive HER? She had a life before HE came along. I do not see why she needs HIS forgiveness for. She owns her own body and did what she chose to do with it before HIM. HE does not own her body, she does.
HE need to overcome HIS own jealousy over this, because that is what it really boils down to.
What matters, binto is that she remains faithful to arnold if the two of them decide to marry afterall.
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flamerose
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Binto
You didn't say how sexually active your gf was. Was she involved with several men..etc? You need to ask yourself these kinds of questions. What your gf did before she met you is well...just that...what she did before she met you. If she had had multiple men then I'd be concerned. But if she has been with only one man it may not be worth your thoughts...? My opinion. You've been with her for a year has she or not earned your trust...? If not, then I would consider if you want to continue with the girl...
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MagicOPromotion
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| Posted: Sat Jun 13, 2009 7:01 pm Post subject: my girl friend |
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It has been nice to watch MythBusters with my girl friend. I think it is rare that girls would be interested in science.
Now Im getting a fit worried that she would be to intersted in Adam and Jamie, especially Adam.
I feel that I should be able to compete with him and tv show about her attention.
Any ideas what should I do?
Any cool science present to do or buy?
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